I too am searching for a solution to the jittery/busy/"feel every imperfection in the road" ride of my trd off road.
I wish there was some type of consolidated shock curve graphic for consumers offered by retailers. Maybe it could help people have a baseline in how shocks compare even to oem...
The Bridgestones are likely the best of those options for winter weather on roads. But I would rather have the KOs offroad on deep power.
But then again, I'm in the Southern US and am just regurgitating stuff I read about online lol
I recommend standard load 285/70r17 maxxis razr at tires. They are light weight, look good, and cheapish.
Keeping unsprung weight down was my priority though.