I just ordered Bilstein 6112s for the front and 6100s for the rear. Also went pretty much the whole Dobinsons catalog for the rest of suspension. It all comes in a month. I figured this was the best bang for my buck when it came to what I need my truck to do.
I can’t speak for myself. But a friend at work test drove a gen 4 Tacoma with the family. 2 kids under 2 in car seats in the back. He left the dealer shop with a tundra. He said he was hoping to make the Tacoma work but there simpy was not enough room.